Hidden Tax

Doctors aren’t just holding patients together - many are holding entire families together too: the hopes, the emergencies, the financial shortfalls that no one talks about but everyone depends on.

This session brings that silence into the light. We name the cultural, emotional, and inherited pressure that comes with being “the one who made it,” and we unpack a practical, compassionate way to set boundaries without guilt or conflict.

Ndumi Hadebe is the author of Handle Black Tax Like a Pro – Setting Boundaries, Improving Relationships and Achieving Freedom, a book about how to strike a healthy balance between helping family or relatives and allowing space for personal financial goals through the practice of healthy boundaries.

Because your success should build your life - not suffocate it, and being the ‘successful one’ should never cost you your peace, your worth, or the dream of generational wealth you’ve worked so hard to create.

Learning Outcomes: 

Ndumi Hadebe answers the big question of what black tax with boundaries looks like.

At this webinar, you will learn:  

1. Dissect the layers and pressure of family responsibility

   • Identify the emotional, cultural, and psychological weight that makes saying “no” feel impossible.

2.  Redefine what healthy family support looks like

   • Learn how to help without overextending, overgiving, or becoming the default problem-solver.

3. Learn how to have tough money conversations with loved ones

   • Practical tools for mastering the A-Z of healthy boundaries

   • Use practical scripts and gentle language frameworks that reduce conflict and misunderstanding. 

4. Build a stronger, healthier money identity

   • Understand how roles like “first-born,” “breadwinner,” or “the successful one” shape their decisions and stress.

5. Protect their financial peace without feeling guilt and shame

   • Implement realistic limits and decision-making tools that maintain generosity without burnout.

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